“Don’t forget me daddy.”

The last words of 15-year-old Rory Subramoney, one of 13 children killed in the Throb nightclub tragedy in Chatsworth two decades ago, came flooding back to his father Lazarus on Sunday as he watched the Enyobeni tavern disaster unfold.

“It has been a huge trigger for my wife and I. We relived our pain when we heard about the 21 children who had lost their lives in a similar way to how we lost our child,” Subramoney told Sunday Times Daily on Wednesday...