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Take your grudge to the grave, but you’ll take your happiness with it

The only person who suffers is the one who holds the grudge

Linda Blair

Most of us have harboured feelings of resentment after being hurt or deceived.

It seems justifiable to do so, particularly when the pain was unexpected and feels utterly undeserved.

A close look at grudge-holding shows, however, that the only person who suffers is the one who holds the grudge...

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